Being the Bigger Person

Now that I have been working for a year, and been through some rough times times feel like I have finally become a successful person and now I am able to provide for my daughter. But like always I just can never have everything running smoothly. I want to be able to be independent and handle my money and handle my stuff, but it's seem that he always wants to be the boss. I do respect him were he feels like the man of the family but I would like to run things myself. I would like to be able to search the web or be able to read stuff without being judged I would like to have some me time. I would like to have friends to talk to but i always seem to find the wrong type of friends were he thinks of me the worst. I want him stop considering as a little girl that he can take away my phone take all the money and manage how much i spend but he in the other can save money and something for his car that's 300 dollars. I try to give him everything he wants i just can never have him happy. Now that i have this job i love that can my own money but i still the same i still feel stuck like i have commitment to give it to him. Don't get me wrong i do love him but sometimes i feel like fish that can swim or a bird that is not allowed to fly. The worst part is when i try to say something things get worst and says that he's the boss and that I'm just a little girl its hard when u have with the same person since u were15 because they always think ur same person they but reality u have changed and grown.